Why You Attract “Bad People” into Your Life

Why You Attract “Bad People” into Your Life

A Cleveland Trauma Therapist Answers

"Why do I attract awful people into my life. They always turn out to be so bad for me."

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This is something I hear all too often as a therapist. And over and over again, I am able to reflect on how our nervous system gets rigged based on our environment growing up.

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Obviously, there is a spectrum for those who come from chaos. It could have been hourly fights between parents or it could have been silently managing your dads emotions without anyone quite noticing. Everyone learns a way to keep themselves safe and begins to build a tolerance/familiarity to the chaos in our lives. We are programed for healing and safety after all.

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So what does that mean if your nervous system is only calm around "bad people"?

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It means we have to give your nervous a reset through healing the causes of the lack of alarm. Meaning, it always traces back to where your body learned to protect itself.

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Healing is possible and once you're able to reset your nervous system and the way you see yourself in the world, it gets a lot easier. Luckily, I have seen so many of my clients heal and learn to attract and embrace healthy individuals into their lives. Now, they are able to really maintain friendships and romantic relationships that add quality to their life instead of take away from it.

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If this sounds like you, lets get to the bottom of the problem and stop putting bandaids over bullet holes. It's about time you find some relief! I provide telehealth therapy to individuals across Ohio. I am located in Cleveland Ohio and would love to get started with your healing journey. Feel free to call me directly at 216-302-1418 or go to the book an information tab at the top of my page.

Wishing you the best, Carley Trillow

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